My Birth Story

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I got pregnant at 43. And towards the end of my pregnancy I was very tired and stressed. Adding to my anxiety over my age and weight during pregnancy was the fact that I had an anterior placenta. This meant that my baby’s movements weren’t felt as readily, and I ended up going to the maternity unit on a regular basis. Extra scans showed that my baby could be verging on the large scale. An estimate of 10.5 pounds was given! All these things considered meant that towards the end of my week 38 of pregnancy the decision was taken to induce labour. Here is my birth story.

My Birth Story

My Birth Story

Bringing on Labour

Coming up to the induction date I did all I could to bring the labour on naturally.

  • I ate hot curries (they just gave me really bad heartburn)
  • Tried raspberry leaf tea (it didn’t work – and shouldn’t be used if at due date or overdue)
  • I’d heard that pineapple would help – I ate LOADS of pineapple. To no avail.
  • Walking was really painful, but I did some, and bouncing on an exercise ball. Nothing.

I even had 2 stretch and sweeps, but these had not started anything.

My case for the hospital was all packed and ready. I’d written a pretty comprehensive birth plan, but was pretty aware of the fact that birth plans tend to go out of the window on the day!

At the end of the day all I really wanted was a natural birth with as little intervention as possible. I was very anxious about tearing or needing an episiotomy or forceps.

The night before

The day before I was due to be induced was my 44th birthday. Family and friends came round and luckily this did take my mind away from how nervous I was about giving birth.

But when I went to bed I could not get to sleep. I also had the worst heartburn that I had ever experienced in my life, which looking back was probably all down to how anxious I felt. Needless to say I did not sleep well!

The big day

The big day arrived and we drove to the maternity unit. We were booked in and I was given a small room on the delivery suite to be induced.

They placed a Propess prostaglandin pessary to induce my labour. But within 30 minutes I was in absolute agony, doubled over in pain, nauseous, sweating and vomiting. My TENS machine had absolutely NO affect on this pain. The monitor showed that my heart rate and blood pressure had soared, and the baby’s heart rate had also gone up. Apparently this can be a side affect to the pessary known as hyperstimulation, where the pessary causes the uterus to be overstimulated and cause long intense contractions. They removed the pessary and I was advised I would need to wait a few hours before trying a different technique.

About 12 hours later still nothing had happened, and my cervix had not dilated, so I was put on a Syntocinon (oxytocin) drip. Oxytocin is the hormone that the body normally produces to help labour progress. The drip is started at a lower level and then increased steadily to hopefully help the body go into labour. I was put on a monitor and given a dedicated delivery room on the unit.

Overnight

By this time it was past midnight, and we were both incredibly tired. But they kept increasing the oxytocin dilution to try and induce me further. At 2am the midwife checked my cervix dilation. I was only at 3cm, and I was told that 10cm was the aim.

She decided to break my waters artificially (or ARM artificial rupture membrane) and it felt very strange as lots of hot amniotic fluid came flooding out. Hopefully this would speed things up!

Morning

However, as the oxytocin dilution went up and time went on, I was not feeling very well. I was in a lot of pain, but only down one side of my body. I was very shaky and felt very nauseous. The midwife attributed it all to the induction drip. At 10am I was given gas and air (nitrous oxide) but it didn’t really do anything, just made me feel more nauseous. The pain started to become unbearable and I felt like one side of my body was really achy and jerking in spasms. The anaesthetist was called to give me an epidural.

The epidural was given at about 11am. But I was still having a lot of pain and really shaking by this point. I felt cold, clammy and really sick.

The midwife came to see how far my cervix had dilated. It was at 4cm. So only 1cm bigger than it had been 9 hours previously! My heart rate and blood pressure had rocketed again. And so had my baby’s. It was time to decide what to do next.

Caesarean

I had discussed the risks of a caesarean section with the consultant at my last appointment. It really was my last wish, and last resort for if everything else had not gone to plan. But we decided that it really had to be the only plan for us now, so I signed a consent form, and the anaesthetist gave me another epidural to ensure I could go to theatre.

Andrew was given some scrubs and we were wheeled down to the prep room. My heart rate and the baby’s heart rate were now at critical levels, so it was an emergency.

A lot of questions were asked, but I must confess to not remembering very much about the theatre experience after being in pre-op. I actually felt as though my whole body was numb from my chest down. Really worryingly I felt as though I could hardly breathe, as though my chest muscles were not working. The only thing that I do remember is concentrating on the instruments in the theatre as the caesarean was carried out. All I could do was focus solely on keeping breathing. I was utterly terrified, and know that Andrew was also incredibly scared by how I looked.

Thankfully I do remember the feeling of relief as Elizabeth gave her first cry!

Recovery

After I had been sewn back up, they wheeled me out of theatre and into a recovery room. Elizabeth was placed in Andrews arms. I could not even feel my arms, so felt totally useless. We both had cannulas (needles) in our hands, and I was on an antibiotic drip.

We were absolutely exhausted. But we were parents, and she was perfect!

So. This is my birth story. Please don’t think that because my experience of induction wasn’t the best that your experience of being induced or your birth story will end up being the same. One thing that I have learnt is that every woman’s story is different.

At the end of the day the important thing to remember is that we ended up holding our perfect child.

I would love to hear your birth story. Do comment below, or contact me on social media.

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My Birth Story

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10 Replies to “My Birth Story”

  1. Emma says:

    My birth story from my first baby is so so similar to yours, I was prepped for a c-section and avoided it by the skin of my teeth. I had a forceps assisted delivery instead. But like you mentioned, every labour and birth story is different. My second couldn’t have been more different, he came naturally and at speed! I’m now 37 weeks pregnant with my third and who knows how it will go this time? And, that I think is the wonder of labour and birth…one of nature’s mysteries. I never tire of reading people’s birth stories, each one so special!! Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Jo Boyne says:

      Hopefully your third will be as natural and easy as your second. But at the end of the day as long as everyone is well it is all good.

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  2. Becca says:

    Gosh, you had a tough time of it, didn’t you! Having my twins didn’t quite go to plan either! Thank you for sharing xx

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    1. Jo Boyne says:

      It is always best to remember that your birth plan is just a guide and not to get too hung up on sticking to it. As long as the end result is a healthy baby and mum, everything is ok!

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  3. Michele Morin says:

    So important to make peace with whatever birth story we are given. It’s unfortunate that women are sometimes made to feel “less than” if their story does not line up with some imagined “right way” to have a baby.
    Blessings to you and yours!

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    1. Jo Boyne says:

      Thank you Michele. I really have made peace with the craziest 36 hours of my life. At the end of the day I’m a mum, and that is the best thing ever. Many kind regards!

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  4. Briony says:

    Aww bless you that was rough! I couldn’t have gone less to plan could it? These pesky babies. I was lucky that I had a relatively straight forward birth, my husband would argue otherwise, as L got a little stuck and it was a small emergency that came with a substantial tear, but I was OK and L was OK. #TwinklyTuesday

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    1. Jo Boyne says:

      And at the end of the day that is all that matters, even if it doesn’t go quite to plan. Thank you for your comment! #TwinklyTuesday

      Reply
  5. Confessions of a New Mummy says:

    Gosh, what a scary time for you, as if giving birth wasn’t terrifying enough! Its funny what we do to try and make labour start, none of those worked for me either time. I remember spending hours on the birthing ball with my second, they just come when they’re ready!

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    1. Jo Boyne says:

      My birthing ball was the comfiest thing to sit on once I got to 36 weeks, but it certainly didn’t bring on labour. It was worth buying though as my LO loves to bounce on it now!

      Reply

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