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If you have been reading my blog for any length of time you will realise that my mantra of the moment is “Collect Moments – not things”. I really am on a huge clutter clearing time. We buy too many things, and end up throwing so much away. This year, having spoken to my family, we have definitely decided that for us adults it should involve less ‘giving of things’ just for the sake of it. It’s good for the planet, good for our pockets, better for our stress levels and just much more Lagom. (see here if you haven’t heard about Lagom yet). This year I intend giving Christmas Gift Experiences rather than material presents. Now, should I get my Mum a bungee jump? Hmmmm….
Christmas Gift Experiences
Now, I would be daft to include what I really intend to get my family in this post. Some of them do actually take the time to read my blog. Needless to say Bro, I again haven’t got you the yacht that you’ve always desired, nor an experience of a week away on one. Sorry.
I actually love gifts that can be used again and again – such as a English Heritage Membership. Visit so many places around England, and also get money off other attractions around the world.
Christmas gift experiences needn’t be expensive businesses though. Sometimes the best presents are a promise of your time. Do you know a couple with a small child who would really like a night off to go for a meal or to the cinema? Then why not give a gift of a night babysitting, or longer if you like? (Hint, hint)
Why not give them this gift in the form of an alternative Gift Voucher? Print this one out, and add your gift of time. Maybe you know someone who needs an hour of gardening doing? Or some trousers taking up? etc etc…
But it also got me thinking about gift experiences that I’d love to give to people that I don’t normally buy for. I don’t buy for my closest friends. Over the years we have decided that this is almost tantamount to just swapping £££, so we buy for the children but not each other.
One of the best gifts I was given in recent years was a visit to a falconry centre from my gorgeous OH. We went hawking, met all the owls, and I watched as various birds of prey (even a vulture) flew from about 200 feet away to land on my arm! Beats a budgie, I’ll tell you. In fact I’d probably really bore you with the video footage.
So, What Would I Buy For My Friends?
If I did buy for them, I’d love to treat them to a day of their favourite activities.
One friend is a really glamorous lady, fond of the finer things in life. She loves great clothes, make-up, and all things beauty. But she also hides a daredevil side of flying in biplanes, swimming Windermere and trekking up the 3 peaks. For her experience I would choose a tank drive. Honestly babe, it will so suit you!
Another mate loves the outdoors life, and is into walking. She has climbed Snowden not once but TWICE in the last year. I’d treat her to a glamping stay. Like camping, but you can still plug in your hairdryer. Nice one.
So you can see why all these experiences would appeal to me more than the usual gift ideas of jumpers, perfume and jewellery. All of those are lovely, but the memories of a day out can last much longer.
I am going to buy my little one and niece some gifts. Not many, as they both have everything they need. But we will be clearing out a lot of old toys to make room for the new. Some will go to charity, some will be sold.
My little one is actually getting a wooden play house for outside. I am so excited for this. Hopefully we can make some memories there next summer, and I look forward to showing you all the decorations that I plan to make for her new play place! So really that is more of an experience than a thing, isn’t it?
So, are you going to give Christmas gift experiences instead of material things this year? What ideas do you have? I would love to hear. Do comment below, or contact me on social media.
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